Mase wrote:PrezIke wrote:Mase wrote:belleebee wrote:Anyway, this is all pretty deep stuff: perhaps all of us should stick to discussing football, particularly the one thing we all have in common - City.
That’s the problem - we’re not allowed to use football as a way of escaping “real life” anymore. It’s all about politics.
Sports has always been about politics in some way mate.
I can say wanting sports to NOT be about politics to more than a few IS a political statement in itself.
Is it truly accurate to suggest there has never been any socio-economic/societal issues that naturally or not so naturally exhibit themselves in sport?
Can one say that if one is truly honest and informed? I'd like to hear the arguement.
Absolutely yeah. When I used to go to Maine Road as a kid it was about watching shit football, enjoying it, and buzzing that I was getting the new City kit for Christmas.
Absolutely no politics, but if you can point out something that’s on par with players taking a knee now, I’m all ears.
I hear you. So, what I would say is understandably from your point of view, no doubt, it would seem that the experience you had was that of a lack of politics.
However, your experience I suspect is not shared by others who may come from a different background.
I obviously never went to Maine Road, but I've attended many professional sporting events here in NYC that I am sure more than a few in attendance would not see as "political" but I would certainly attest to seeing, hearing and experiencing things on and off the pitch that would mean something different to others and I would absolutely classify as political.
Btw, the wages the players make and the constant banter towards players and attitude in general about rich primadonna athletes (often the case when not white as our own player, Sterling, pointed out) is 100% a political point of view as I can absolutely not shared by all and that expression evokes a reaction from others when it's heard that tells us it is political.
Back to the attending the event experience...Have you ever been to someone's home or an event or party where you felt you were DRASTICALLY different than the others at the event or worried about others finding this out and what that might mean?
Most who attend football or I've observed at the many sport events I've attended since I was a child in the States: baseball, basketball, American football and ice hockey are white, straight males, and even within that category tend to lean a certain way in some aspects that represent the dominant expression of stereotypical identity of masculinity that tends to lean more towards teenage-like.
If you don't really fall in line with this I can tell you for a fact I have seen others exposed and ridiculed at games and called things like "faggot" "gay" "a**hole" There's literally an infamous song at NYC sporting events using that song I heard mostly at NY Yankee games in the bleachers (the poor people seats) often directed at the "box seats" because they were perceived as the rich part of the stadium.
You'll also hear plenty of calling people a "pu**y and none of these are not exactly meant to be compliment just like calling someone a c*nt isn't.
I've seen the few women at games if they were fit screamed at and chanted at to "show us your t*ts."
I could go on here but tell me that if that offends you, or you know maybe if you are actually gay, have a LGBTQ family member, or are just a woman you might feel that behaviour at sport events might be construed as a tad bit political?
Also, workers rights and unions for the players is a political issue. As is the fact that in football (like American football for ages and until recently the NBA) there are so few black or brown managers/coaches despite so many players. I heard a recent podcast about black coaches in the UK where a well regarded candidate said that some known black candidates outwardly discourage them from pursing the profession because they believe it is so tainted by racism.
I could go on and on, as I wrote mate.
We all have our own experiences and perspectives, so I acknowledge that for you it was not a political experience, but I think it is also fair to be able to simultaneously acknowledge that is not the same for others.
Hoppefully, then we can move forward to figure it out in a respectful manner whilst still being able to have fun. The fun doesn't have to disappear completely, but I don't know any teachers or adults who teach children that ridiculing their peers and then blaming the victim - which can be construed as a form of bullying (not saying you're a bully btw) - is something we should be looking at to model in our interactions with one another.
It's fine to disagree. That's normal. It's what we all do in that situation that matters.
Dismissing your feelings and experiences, I will also say, is also not helpful and not fair either.
Hope that helps explain a bit. Respect.